Authentically OnBrand
Hello, fellow OnBrand readers!
My name is Ashlyn Kay, and I run the blog AuthenticallyAshlynKay. I am so excited to be featured on this week's installment of OnBrand's blog. I had the pleasure of spending a fantastic day with Birdi and Rayna while learning so much from them and even doing a photoshoot! This collaboration is super special to me because it allowed me to work with fellow bloggers who have values such as mine!
AuthenticallyAshlynKay is all about owning up to what makes you who you are and living your life authentically. This concept came into fruition during the beginning of the Corona Virus Quarantine. In years past, I had gone back and forth with the idea of starting a blog, and even at one point executed on an idea, but nothing ever felt true to who I was. Creating AuthenticallyAshlynKay hit me when I was on social media more than the usual amount due to everything being shut down. As I was scrolling, I noticed that now more than ever, the so-called "influencers" that I was following were putting forth a reality online that was nowhere close to what real life typically looks like, especially during a pandemic. So I decided to create a space where I could share how I challenge myself to express my struggles and share what helps me live a life of authenticity.
To get a little taste of what I share on my blog, I wanted to provide the OnBrand audience my tips on how to challenge yourself to live your life authentically.
1. Self- Reflection
When I first challenged myself to live my life more true to who I am, I first decided I needed to dig deep into what makes me, me. You can do this by meditating, reading self-help books, delving into an art form that makes you feel connected to who you are, or journal. During this time, ask yourself the questions that make you uncomfortable. Challenge yourself to go beyond your first layer of thoughts.
2. Find Your Personal Style
Self-expression is SUPER important when it comes to living an authentic life. When I started to feel like I was struggling with authenticity, I was hiding myself behind clothes that kept me hiding in the crowd. But every day, I have been challenging myself to wear clothing that makes me feel like myself. Finding your personal style doesn't have to be specific to clothing; it can be jewelry, makeup, and even shoes.
3. Surround yourself with people who bring out your best.
I believe "you are who you surround yourself with." Do a scan of who you spend time with and make sure they have your best interest at heart and make sure you have the same for them. This will ensure you have a true support system around you.
I hope these simple tips help you challenge yourself to live authentically. Living life in a way that makes you truly happy is the best way to live. We are all on this journey together and can learn a thing or two from each other. You can find tips like these and other lifestyle content on AuthenticallyAshlynKay.com
P.S. Check out our collab blog on Ashlyns website this Thursday 11/05!